Coach touch on something in yesterday’s stream that stuck with me, Coach brought up Jerry West saying “the game is setup for you to lose”. I was thinking the system is setup for you to lose as well, there are many men young and old, who has a losers mindset, their goal is to bring those who are winners to their level.

I’m 44 now, when I see young men and some older men complaining about, relationships, racism, politics, not paying upfront, trying to get it for free or you should get married, I tell myself these are some examples of the system setting you up to lose.

I’ve shared this in the past but I’ll share it again, I tried the married life twice. Over a 15 year period 2004-2020, I was married twice and divorced, when I look back on that timeframe I was loosing big. First marriage 2004-2013 my son was produce, who is now 22 years old. I paid child support for him, from when he was 9 years old until 18 years old.

Second marriage same year I got divorce from the first marriage, I tried again. From 2013-2020 (super ecclesiastical step dummy simp move on my part), I married a single mother of three with a cat and a dog. Plus move in her past drug addiction mother while still paying child support from my first marriage. I ended up paying alimony for my second marriage after the divorce, while still paying child support for my first. Crazy I know!!!

After my second divorce at 38 years old no one was there to helped I was alone. I only had a bed, TV, my clothes staying in a 2 bedroom apartment, plus heading towards military retirement. I had to rebuild and start over. My child support and alimony stop in 2022, once that occurred I was fortunate to have significant amount saved to help me recover.

Now I’m debt free, own a three bedroom house, Juco life, been traveling abroad, visiting states, I’m free now. However, It took a lot of work and discipline to recover from those two failed marriages.

This is more so for the young men, there’s a lot theory and hope from men with no experience about life in this current space online, but I say this from the core of my being, someone that served in the Military for 20+ years around all groups of men and also experience lost while married for 15 years plus, Coach is a true leader of men, who is experienced at life and has the blueprint to winning which is the Free Agent Lifestyle. Much Respect to Coach and the🛡️Coach gang!!!