The issue of height and weight almost disappears, especially in SE Asia. Average height of males here is 5-4, 5-7 so being short is not a disqualifier as much as it is in the U.S. I’ve seen overweight white dudes and goofy brads with stunners. The average height for women is about 4-8 to 5-1. Now that I’m in Korea, the women are a lot taller. The men too. I can image Japan being similar but I don’t know yet.